Saturday, November 1, 2008

Hmm...It's Okay.

I have never been able to dislike/hate anyone. Do I have a prob? I don't judge people. I have keyed out there is no use in that. My liking and disliking is always limited to principles. I have this conviction, 'there is good in everyone'. Well I don't go correcting them but still when my friends get chatty about people and say they are so and so. I stay mum. I kind of find myself ill at ease among buddies complaining or gossiping about someones character and nature. Character is something really personal. With just some obscure knowledge on someone, who are we to comment. Before dishing the dirt, why not think about yourself being hashed out. My friends wont understand, they will tell me 'Yaa dear, to your eyes everyone is good'. N they will have tons of examples, 'You said she is not like that, now you get to see for yourself'. Lolzzz. I have kind of got used to this now. Friends mean more to me than proving myself right. My world will fall apart without them. But to dispense with this personal guidepost is just not possible for me 'Speak ill of no man, but speak all the good you know of everybody'.

3 comments:

Kannan A said...

I completely disagree with the first line of this post. You never hated anyone? :)

tamana said...

A revamp of friendship wouldn't hav been possible if I hav hated....;)

Sathya said...

yu opened ma eyes today rums.. :)..right post at da right time for me ;) ..thou i have neva hated any1,cuz of others' instincts i tend to hate a person or rather disguise to hate that person.."Hate no one and see the good in everybody" will follow it from now on! :)